Of all bony fish, the oarfish, Regalecus glesne, is the longest. It is suggested that oarfish can reach up to 15 meters (49 feet) in length but actual recorded lengths put them at still impressive 8 meters (26 feet). Oarfish will often was ashore or caught by fishermen. Yet, much like the giant squid, observations of oarfish alive in the wild are rare and video of them alive in the wild are even rarer. Until now.
kadang-kadang kita boleh forgive, tapi kita takkan forget.
atau pada suatu masa kita tak boleh buat the first part of it maka kita pilih untuk buang dari fikir dan lupakan saja.
yang boleh buat keduanya memang berhati murni.
today i learned that with the right tone, you can avoid being offensive while talking to other people.
like no matter how cheesy your words are, or how lame it is, even somewhat awkward. if you say it nicely, it will not come out wrong.
like how ehsan is saying his words while asking iffa to marry him. seriously, on paper (except in novels??) those will surely look absurd. i also can’t imagine those words being used in real life.
or am i being biased to adi putra?
A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”
Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.
She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”
It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!
I think this just changed my life.
It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth.
You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.
But in real life, you can’t avoid doing things. We have to earn a living, do our taxes, have difficult conversations sometimes. Human life requires confronting uncertainty and risk, so pressure mounts. Procrastination gives a person a temporary hit of relief from this pressure of “having to do” things, which is a self-rewarding behavior. So it continues and becomes the normal way to respond to these pressures.
Particularly prone to serious procrastination problems are children who grew up with unusually high expectations placed on them. Their older siblings may have been high achievers, leaving big shoes to fill, or their parents may have had neurotic and inhuman expectations of their own, or else they exhibited exceptional talents early on, and thereafter “average” performances were met with concern and suspicion from parents and teachers.
when you had so much things in your heart that other things seem to disappear.
when there is so little, that you can’t think of something else but it. over and over.
or sometimes, one day, you realized everything had faded away already, and you want to look for it, but you don’t know what to look for. because you don’t know what went missing.
do you feel empty? or do you just feel blank?
it’s ok. you tell yourself.
but the truth is you don’t feel anything. not positive nor negative. nothing.
the truth is you don’t feel a thing.
“Nobody says anything about that”
dan dirimu dijanji Sang Sempurna.
paling suka ayat ni dalam seluruh lagu.
entah kenapa exam hari ni rasa berdebar lebih.
untung gila duduk kat dunia ni.
tak puas hati sikit boleh buat reli depan yang memerintah.
bayangkan kalau kat akhirat Tuhan benarkan buat macam tu. mesti sampai kesudah tak setel dok kat padang mahsyar tu.
mungkin kita patut wujudkan satu hari khas di mana pada hari tersebut seluruh malaysia, terutamanya orang melayu, dilarang sebut atau menggunakan ayat ‘orang melayu memang pemalas’ sepanjang hari tersebut.
bayangkan, kalau dalam satu hari, dari pukul 9.05 pagi sampai 9.10 pagi, 40 orang sebut ayat tersebut dalam perbualan.
atau menggunakan ayat tersebut dalam komen-komen serata internet.
itu baru lima minit.
kalau 24 jam?
kalau setiap hari?
kata-kata = doa, kan?
mungkin inilah sebabnya yang dikatakan perangai ‘orang melayu memang pemalas’ tu tak hilang-hilang.